Thursday, July 28, 2011

Peas and Thank you... Ten tips on getting your little ones to eat their veggies

     Ah, this can be every parents nightmare. Trying to get the little ones and sometimes older ones to eat their veggies.  Here are just a few things I have learned with my children.  I have they are 13, 7, 7, and 2 and for the most part they do pretty good with eating their fruits and veggies.  In fact the fruits are in most cases the easiest to accomplish!

1.  Start with infancy - When my children started on the baby foods instead of starting them on the fruits likes banana's and peaches I did the peas and carrots.  Once I had introduced the vegetables to my children and got them where they would eat them then I would introduce a fruit along with a veggie I knew they liked.  Kind of like when you eat supper you like a little chocolate cake for dessert, well that is how I started mine.

2.  Don't force it - Have the child to try it, if he/she don't like it move on.  I always put just a little on their plate every time and tell them to try it and if they don't like it they don't have to eat it.  Even I have some veggies I don't like but over time I have learned that I do like them, so I myself do as I teach my children and try different things in the hopes that I too will like them now!

3.  Add cheese - It may sound crazy, but this one really works.  I myself do not like cheese and it does not like me, we get along just fine like that!  However my children love it, so I try incorporate it into the veggies when they say they don't like a certain one like broccoli!  There are also other sauces you can get some more so healthy than others, that will allow you and your family a different taste.  Try and find out what your child likes and work the veggies in there, you will be amazed at the responses you get when it comes to supper after that.

4.  mix it - I don't eat broccoli myself but found that if I would make Stir Fry with broccoli, peas, carrots and other veggies both me an the kids like it.  My son even tells everybody that he likes it now but about the first three times I made it he would throw a temper tantrum. I was never a big fan of carrots as a child but I would eat them in a roast orstew beef.  I guess the beef flavored it so it made it better!

5.  Butter it and wrap it - I know it is full of trans fats and cholesterol but I love it!  I have found a rice with peas, carrots, and corn mixed in and my son would not eat it.  As soon as he found out I out salt and butter on it he decided he liked it.  I didn't ask alot of questions I just went with it to get him to eat it.  You can also get the pita wraps, choose your main meat for the meal, and set up several different veggies for the wrpas.  Allow your child depending on their age ofcourse, to fix their own wrap and pick their veggies.  This allows them so independance while in reality you still have control.

6.  Likes - Try to prepare at least one veggie you know your child will eat.  I think for  the most part children like corn on the cob, so make it!  Our family favorite at one time mashed potatoes, so I made them all the time!  I would try to add another veggie but atleast I could get them to eat something.

7.  Make it fun - If you have to make a game out of it, then do so.  If that is what it takes to get them to eat it is worth it.  Make designs with their food. 

8.  Snacks - Carrots with ranch dressing, or celery and peanutbutter!  These are a few favorites among children that if they don't or refuse to get their veggies any other way it works.  Some children will not eat a cooked veggie they prefer it raw so put it in a baggie (ziploc bag) or a sealed container and allow them to munch all day!

9.  Juice it - With the new technologies we have to day you can purchase a juicer and or even buy the V8 drinks at stores.  If you make your own add a little fruit to it to make it sweeter.  THe V8 juices offer I beleive 2 full servings of veggies a glass and they too have the fruit and veggie mix.  Again this is another my little ones seem to enjoy not even realizing their getting the veggies needed for a healthy body.

10.  Allow play - My daughter gets in trouble for playing with her food at the table.  My hubby can't stand it but when we are eating alone if she wants to make a mountain with her potatoes and use the corn for lava OK.  THe deal is if she plays with it she has to eat it.  I don't allow her to play with it and make a mess with it and then not eat it.  On this one we start to lose table manners, so it is almost a step in the wrong direction!  When you go to the grocery store take your child with you and let them help you decide which veggies you are going to have.  We have a grocery store  here that has tiney grocery carts and my daughter ALWAYS has to have one, so I allow her to help me pick some of the things we will have. 

     No matter which route you go or which one you use, as long as you can get your child and even aults alike to eat their veggies then it is a success.  My 2 year has gone through stages where all she would eat is veggies and now it is meat, and she don't even want french fries.  So I don't fight her too bad now because I know she will eat it we are just going through a phase!  You know your child and what they will and will not eat, and even their allergies.  Don't force them to eat everything on their plate because this can cause bad eating habits and obesity.  Allow them to eat freely but with in reason!  Find what works for you and your family and stick to it.  We are all different on things we enjoy from sports to our foods.  So allow the same for your child.  What they learn now they will continue on in life.  My parents used to get so angry with me because they said "I eat like a bird".  I currently am not overweight and still continue to eat smaller meals and more of them.

About Peas and Thank YouPeas and Thank You is a collection of recipes and stories from a mainstream family eating a not-so-mainstream diet. It's filled with healthy and delicious versions of foods we’ve all grown up enjoying, but with a Mama Pea twist—no meat, lots of fresh ingredients and plenty of nutrition for growing Peas. From wholesome breakfasts to mouth-watering desserts, there’s plenty here to satisfy the pickiest Peas in your life. It’s easier than ever to whip up crowd-pleasing meals that will have the whole family asking for, “more, Peas.” Sarah Matheny's delicious recipes and entertaining stories draw hundreds of thousands of visitors to her blog, peasandthankyou.com each month, where she makes raising a vegetarian family easy and fun. She is the author of  “Peas and Thank You: Simple Meatless Meals the Whole Family Will Love.”


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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Life After Domestic Violence!

     As a child I can remember seeing the neighbor run out her front door and her husband would come out the front door screaming and yelling at her.  I'll never forget it and I was just a tiny little girl at that time.  Out of all of our neighbors this was the only one I can recall ever seeing them fight and I don't ever remember reading or seeing anything about a man beating his wife or a woman beating her husband on the news or radio!  What has a country gone to?  It has become the norm now to see, hear, and read about these stories.  Well I am not here to tell you about a friend of mine or someone I know, I am hear to tell you a story about me!

     When I was 18 years old I was in college classes for cosmetology and one of the girls wanted to introduce me to her friend. He was single, nice looking, and had a place of his own.  I agreed and we talked on the phone a time or two and on Jan. 28 we went out on a blind date.  He seemed nice enough, and well we started dating after that.  I moved in with him in Feb. and then shortly after that is when the fun began.  He would get really angry at me for stupid stuff and we would fight.  Next thing I knew he hit me.  I always said I wouldn't be with a man that beat me for any reason.  Guess what?  We got married 8/5/95 just 2 days after me graduating from college!  We were married for 3 years 23 days and 11 hours.  In that time I was beaten, had glass plates thrown in my face, made to things sexually that not even an animal should have to do, and mentally and emotionally abused almost daily.  I would leave but he always came back and apologized and PROMISED to never do it again.  So I would go back.  About 2 years into the marriage I came up pregnant.  I was so happy and he acted like he was.  I hoped for the best and prayed it would work out.  I was raised that once you get married you stayed married.  Divorce wasn't an option for me because my dad taught me that we married in the eyes of God and the Bible says to not part.  I had, had enough and starting studying the Bible more myself and learned he was right.  In July 98 my Son was born and Eric my Ex-husband now became a totally different person.  Prior to the baby I wasn't always allowed to talk to my family but now he has quit his job so he can make sure I don't see or talk to any of them.  When my son was 1 month and o1 day old I had enough and I called my dad to come pick me up!  One month and 1 day after I left I was doing my paper route, Eric was in Jury duty, and my sister was riding with me to help deliver papers.  Sounds great I know but what happens next will floor you!  Eric called and asked could we talk?  I said yes I suppose and he meet me where I pick up my papers.  He go t into the passenger seat and then he reached over and grabbed me and put his foot on the gas pedal.  We came so close to hitting a toddler boy in the day care yard.  Needless to say after I survived this I wasn't going NO WHERE Around him again.

     The scariest thing I have ever done was leave him for good.  He promised that he would kill me if I did and that no other man would ever want me.  I was no good, and any negative thing you can imagine.  I took a chance in a man killing me and me busting Hell wide open to prove to the world that I didn't have to take i anymore.


     After being gone, and raising my son alone I decided to go back to school.  As every child at some point said I want to be fireman or a police officer.  I didn't just wake up and decide to go to school for Law Enforcement I went to the college and talked with my counselor.  I told him I wanted to help the community and thought that Criminal Justice was the way I wanted to go.  He thought it to be a great idea and told me I was taking BLET.  OK, so now what is BLET? I found out, it is Basic Law Enforcement Training.  All in a nut Shell it is the Police Academy!  So OK I am game for this and I think I would be a great officer.  While I was in the Academy, actually we were starting the Criminal Investigation phase there was a 5 year old little girl that had gone missing from her home.  Just so happens she lived near Eric and I had a bad feeling about it but nothing there.  I went to class one afternoon and the teacher that was teaching that night informed the class that they had a suspect.  They all knew who I was and instead of pulling me to the side to tell me what was going on they announced before the entire class.  The little girl was found raped, murdered and wrapped in a blue tarp along the river bank.  They had Eric as the suspect and since it has made things very hard for me and my son.  I graduated a few months later from the Academy but could not get an agency to hire because of what he was being charged with even though we had been divorced for 2 years,

     I was determined to not allow this to keep me down.  I continued my education in Criminal Justice but about half way through my classes I met my high school sweetheart again and we started dating.  I have always heard the old saying what doesn't kill us makes us stronger and at the time I would have told you that you were crazy.  Now looking back I have succeeded in life above and beyond anything I could have imagined.  I have 4 beautiful children, a husband that loves me, and My mother and father back in my life.  Eric went to trial and was convicted on all charges and is currently on death row.  It makes it bad for my son and we stay in therapy all the time but we make it one day at a time.

     I welcome any comments or even questions you have in regards to the post.  This is all true and based on my life as a young woman in the south.  If you yourself is a survivor let me know and maybe share how you have dealt with life's Lemons.  Did you make Lemonade or did you let the lemons take you down?  I hope you enjoyed a nice cold glass of Lemonade with me and showed them that you're not gonna take it!

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Friday, July 22, 2011